Who can understand the love of God?
For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son that whosoever would believe in Him would no perish but have everlasting life.
God has done his bit, and now we must do ours.
Take up your cross and follow Jesus.
A devotional I read recently was all about God’s love for us, not our love for him, I found it really encouraging. Sometimes we are of the impression that it is our job to fix others, and especially if we are in leadership, or indeed as a parent. It’s very easy for us to see what’s wrong with others, and of course focusing on what’s wrong with others can an attempt to take the attention away from what is wrong with ourselves. Jesus didn’t come to tell people what was wrong with them, he came to tell them how much they were loved just as they were.
A religious, Pharisaic spirit will get you focused on what is wrong with yourself or someone else, and then your focus will be on trying to fix it. This is what Eve did when Satan deceived her. He got her to take her focus off God and onto what she thought he was keeping from her. This caused her to believe that God couldn’t be trusted and so she attempted to fix it. Her attempts to do something about her perceived problem caused her to sin against the very God who loved her so much that he had already given her everything she would ever need to life in a perfect world forever, in complete harmony with God and his plans.
When God called his children to go into all the world and preach the gospel, he didn’t tell them to go and tell others what was wrong with them and try to fix them. Rather he told them to go into all the world and tell people how much they were loved by God, his Father in heaven, and how much his children loved them. He didn’t call us to fix people, he called us to love people Why? Because only His love can heal broken hearts. The gospel isn’t a self-help program; it is all about living in a relationship with God.
Th apostle Paul wrote most of the New Testament, but none of his teachings are about trying to get people to stop sinning and become better people, instead his goal was to get people to enter into an intimate relationship with God the Father though Jesus, God the Son, by the power of God the Holy Spirit.
You must remember when Paul was converted to faith in Christ on the road to Damascus, he was continuing on his mission find followers of Christ so he could have them arrested and put to death for their beliefs. You’d imagine this was the perfect opportunity for Jesus to tell Paul how much of a sinner he was and how he must change his ways, or he would be punished. Instead, all Jesus did was ask him why he was persecuting Jesus.
Act 22:7 ESV And I fell to the ground and heard a voice saying to me, ‘Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me?’
You’d think that Jesus would have told him what he needed to do to fix his life. That he needed to do a Bible study course on how to be a follower of Jesus, or at least he needed to do was to prove himself before he could be trusted. So what did Jesus say to him –
Act 22:10 ESV And I said, ‘What shall I do, Lord?’ And the Lord said to me, ‘Rise, and go into Damascus, and there you will be told all that is appointed for you to do.’
Little wonder that Paul testified about how he gave up everything to know Jesus
Php 3:7-8 ESV But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ. (8) Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ
Paul understood that knowing Jesus was seeing God as He is. Paul’s personal transformation came from knowing Jesus. The Greek word for “know” or “knowing” that Paul uses is a Jewish word used when referring to the intimacy a married couple enjoys by loving one another. Notice what Paul tells his young student Timothy whom he is discipling in ministry:
“The purpose of my instruction is that all believers would be filled with love that comes from a pure heart, a clear conscience, and genuine faith” (1 Timothy 1:5).
If our goal in life is to strive to be a better person so God will love us more then we will not be filled with the love of God. Its not that God doesn’t love us completely, but we will not have the faith to believe that he loves us no matter what. When we live in that place of, “I need to do more,” “I need to live a better life,” “I must be a better Christian,” then we will live our lies riddled with guilt, we won’t have a clear conscience, and our hearts will not be pure, and our faith will not be genuine. We cannot be filled with the love of God that comes from a pure heart, a clear conscience and genuine faith, when we have shipwrecked all three in our efforts to try to be better.
If you are living like this, then you are living in a performance-based relationship with God and with others. You don’t really believe that you are loved by God or by others because you measure God’s love for you by your performance, and you measure the love of others for you by their performance.
Paul’s goal in all his teachings was to help believers walk in the fullness of God’s love for them. This revelation purifies people’s hearts and consciences. Consequently, their hearts’ faith in God will be genuine and unwavering. Everything Paul taught and wrote carried this purpose in mind.
You are not called to change the world, or indeed to change yourself. You are called to love the world, and to love others, and to love yourself; and this is only possible as you understand the love that God has for you. If you think that as believers, we are called to change people, you will never see them the way God does. If you believe we are called to love people as God loves us, then you will see how powerful God’s love is to change them in ways nothing else can. But you must see God’s love for you first, and his love is never, never based on your performance, on how you live your life.
God’s love for Paul was so great that even when he met him Paul was on his way from the murder of God’s children and on his way to find more, and in that moment, he trusted him and loved him enough to send him off to bring more of his children home. This should encourage us to believe that it’s not our performance that causes God to love us, it’s not our good words that cause him to call us to love others, it’s his call on our lives to be his children that promises his continual, unshaking, unchanging love for us.
The biggest problem that people generally struggle with in this life comes from a broken heart. We cannot see a broken heart, so we cannot always know when someone’s heart is broken. However, we can see the signs, as a broken heart can manifest in drug addiction, alcohol abuse, in hatred, anger, greed, lack of self-worth, obsessive compulsive disorder, control and a whole host of other behaviours that causes a person to self-destruct.
The only cure for a broken heart is a revelation of God’s love. When we really experience the love God has for us, our broken hearts are healed. Wholeness in who we are in Christ begins to bring fresh revelation of our new identity in Christ. It brings new revelation into our hearts, revelation of who God created us to be in Him.
Paul was at the top of his game when he met Christ.
Php 3:4-7 ESV (4) though I myself have reason for confidence in the flesh also. If anyone else thinks he has reason for confidence in the flesh, I have more: (5) circumcised on the eighth day, of the people of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews; as to the law, a Pharisee; (6) as to zeal, a persecutor of the church; as to righteousness under the law, blameless. (7) But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ.
Before he came to Christ, Paul had it all going for him, or so he thought. There was no one who could keep the law like Paul. He kept the law to the letter, describing himself as blameless as far as self-righteousness was concerned, not only that but he would have he taught others to do so. As a Pharisee he was so zealous for the law that he persecuted anyone he found who was not keeping it, which is why he went after the church of Jesus Christ. However, he discovered this is not who God created him to be, and when he believed Jesus, he was changed.
Knowing that he had persecuted Jesus Christ and put to death all those he found following Christ, now he comes face-to-face with the acceptance of God, the unconditional love of the Father and total forgiveness. This began a process in Paul’s spirit that led to his true transformation. I was speaking in a church in Tullamore last week and I talked about the time that I first believed that God had paid for my sins on the cross, having forgiven me and offered me eternal life. In that moment my life was changed. The moment I realised that the one person against whom I had sinned the most had forgiven me and accepted me, the weight of sin was taken from my shoulders. This was the beginning of the process that led to my transformation. That God would accept me, that he would love me unconditionally and that he would forgive all my sin, eventually led me to this wonderful revelation of how much I am loved by God.
There is a sign over my life and over yours, “Work in progress.” We are neither the engineers or the builders, God is. It is his engineering and his design at work in our lives, and he doesn’t have the same set of blueprints for any two of us. I’m not capable of loving in any real way, but when I understand God’s love for me then I can allow that love to be poured out to others around me. As your pastor its not my job to fix you, it’s my job to love you enough that I pray for you, that I minister the word of God to you, and that I be there for you whenever or however you need me.
I do love every one of you with the love God has poured into my heart. If, however you are judging my love for you by my performance then you will be disappointed. But here’s the thing, if you are judging me by the things I do for you, or the things you think I should be doing but don’t, then you are also judging yourself in the same way. You are either judging how much God’s loves you by how much you think he should be doing and how much you feel he falls short of that mark, or you believe that God is judging you for your poor performance and so is withholding his promises. Not unlike Like Eve, you have listened to the voice of the devil who tells you if God really loved you, he would have answered that prayer by now. Therefore, God doesn’t love you, in fact he cannot be trusted as he is holding things from you. You need to do something to fix yourself or God will never love you.
Truth is, God always has and always will love you, and he has already given you everything you will ever need for this life, to live the life he has called you to live. The problem is you don’t see his hand of provision because you believe that he is still waiting for you to get your act together, and if you don’t, he won’t provide. That’s a pack of lies. God cannot give you what he has already given you, so isn’t it time you quit trying to be someone you are never going to be and be and be the person he has already called you to be. God has already provided everything for you and all he asks is that you believe.
Like the author of the devotional, I, as your pastor, I am a work in progress. I am too busy to run around trying to fix everyone, but I am fully capable of loving you all because of my revelation of the love that God has for me.
“For it is God who is at work in you, both to will and to work for His good pleasure” (Philippians 2:13).
As believers, we are 100% whole in Christ. The manifestation of this wholeness comes by walking in faith with a heart fully persuaded in the love God has for us.
Eph 3:16-19 ESV that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, (17) so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, (18) may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, (19) and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God.
The love of God is greater far
Than tongue or pen can ever tell.
It goes beyond the highest star
And reaches to the lowest hell.
The guilty pair, bowed down with care,
God gave His Son to win;
His erring child He reconciled
And pardoned from his sin.
O love of God, how rich and pure!
How measureless and strong!
It shall forevermore endure—
The saints’ and angels’ song.
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When hoary time shall pass away,
And earthly thrones and kingdoms fall;
When men who here refuse to pray,
On rocks and hills and mountains call;
God’s love, so sure, shall still endure,
All measureless and strong;
Redeeming grace to Adam’s race—
The saints’ and angels’ song.
3
Could we with ink the ocean fill,
And were the skies of parchment made;
Were every stalk on earth a quill,
And every man a scribe by trade;
To write the love of God above
Would drain the ocean dry;
Nor could the scroll contain the whole,
Though stretched from sky to sky