Joh 11:17-27 ESV Now when Jesus came, he found that Lazarus had already been in the tomb four days. (18) Bethany was near Jerusalem, about two miles off, (19) and many of the Jews had come to Martha and Mary to console them concerning their brother. (20) So when Martha heard that Jesus was coming, she went and met him, but Mary remained seated in the house.
(21) Martha said to Jesus, “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died. (22) But even now I know that whatever you ask from God, God will give you.” (23) Jesus said to her, “Your brother will rise again.” (24) Martha said to him, “I know that he will rise again in the resurrection on the last day.”
(25) Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, (26) and everyone who lives and believes in me shall never die. Do you believe this?” (27) She said to him, “Yes, Lord; I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, who is coming into the world.”
After this, Martha went and called her sister Mary and told her quietly that Jesus was here and was asking for her. As Jesus had not yet arrived in the village, Mary ran immediately to where he was. She fell down at his feet and said.
Joh 11 32b ESV …“Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.”
When Jesus saw her sorrow and the Jews who had come with her weeping, he was deeply moved in his spirit and greatly troubled. He asked where they had laid Lazarus. At this point Jesus wept.
When Jesus wept, I don’t believe he was weeping because Lazarus was dead, instead he was weeping in tender sympathy with his troubled friends. Christ is touched by all our afflictions. He was a man of sorrow acquainted with grief. I believe Jesus knew that Lazarus would be raised to life because when he received the news that he was sick, instead of rushing to him, Jesus remained where he was for two days before starting his journey. When I received the message from Susanna to come to Brain, I dropped everything and went immediately. Surely if Jesus didn’t know that Lazarus would be raised to life, he too would have left immediately. This us why we can be assiured that Jesus wasn’t weeping because Lazarus had died, but in sympathy with the sorrow of his friends who believed that they would not see their loved on again.
When I was praying with Brian, at one stage Susanna and Wilma were weeping, and their grief struck me and I too wept. They wept seeing precious loved one so weak and sick and it seemed like he was dying. I was weeping because I was touched by their grief. I’m not saying that my faith was so strong that I believed one hundred percent that Brian would recover. Its hard to be full of faith when you are praying for someone who is unresponsive with has hardly a pulse. This is the time to pray, “I Lord I believe, help me in my unbelief.”
On a side note, while we ought always to pray for healing, believing that God hears, we don’t always know what else is going on between the individual and God. There is always the chance that the person we are praying for has come to terms with the length of their life and they are happy to go home, and we know no matter how we pray, God will never overrule a person’s will.
In Psalm 91 God promises to satisfy his loved ones with length of days. I used to understand that to mean long life, like ninety or a hundred years. However, over the years I have seen believers of all ages die, young and old. At one stage I sought God on this and what I understood as a result was this. What was meant in Psalm 91 in relation to long life was that a person would be satisfied with the length of days they had, not how old they were when they died. A person may die young, and still be satisfied with the length they have lived. So, we don’t know always what is going on with the person.
I remember praying for a person who had been diagnosed with terminal cancer in her early sixties, and short of a miracle there was no hope of her recovery. I would call to her bedside and pray for her healing. As I continued to visit her, and pray for a miracle, I saw her get weaker each day, even to the point of losing the ability to speak. One day I noticed that she would become very agitated when I would pray, and I wondered why. I remembered that when she first got sick, she told me that she was ready to go home at any time. I realised this person had come to accept the length of her days and wanted to go home.
After this I changed my prayer. Instead of praying for her healing, I prayed for her to be prepared to meet her Lord and saviour. The peace that came over her was really noticeable, so I knew I was praying in line with her will, and God would not overrule her will.
I’m saying that to say this, when we pray for others, especially loved ones, there are times when we must prepare ourselves for the worst but believe for the best. It also worth noting that the worst for us is when a loved one dies, but it’s only the worst for us, not for other person who has gone into the presence of God in glory.
Jews saw Jesus weeping -
John 11 36_37 So the Jews said, “See how he loved him!” (37) But some of them said, “Could not he who opened the eyes of the blind man also have kept this man from dying?”
While its true, Jesus could have kept Lazarus from dying, there was a greater miracle in store for the people to see.
Joh 11:38-44 ESV Then Jesus, deeply moved again, came to the tomb. It was a cave, and a stone lay against it. (39) Jesus said, “Take away the stone.” Martha, the sister of the dead man, said to him, “Lord, by this time there will be an odor, for he has been dead four days.” (40) Jesus said to her, “Did I not tell you that if you believed you would see the glory of God?”
(41) So they took away the stone. And Jesus lifted up his eyes and said, “Father, I thank you that you have heard me. (42) I knew that you always hear me, but I said this on account of the people standing around, that they may believe that you sent me.” (43) When he had said these things, he cried out with a loud voice, “Lazarus, come out.”
(44) The man who had died came out, his hands and feet bound with linen strips, and his face wrapped with a cloth. Jesus said to them, “Unbind him, and let him go.”
Imagine the scene today. A loved one has died. He is in the grave a week. Then someone digs up the coffin and opens it. There is the dead man in the coffin. He is called back to life, and, lo and behold, out he comes alive and well. Our God is the God of the impossible, and we are still seeing the miracles today. If Jesus could bring a person back from death, and if today he can bring someone back from the point of death, is there anything too difficult for him, only believe.
Let’s continue to pray for Brian’s complete recovery, and pray for Susanna, for their son Martin, and for Wilma and James. The God who began a good work in Brian is still perfecting that good work. He continues his good work in all of us throughout our lifetime and will not stop until we see him fade to face. God’s work for us began when Christ died on the cross in our place. His good work began within us when we first believed. Now the Holy Spirit lives in us, enabling us to be more like Christ every day. This process of Christian growth and maturity began when we first accepted the sacrifice of Jesus for our sins, and continues until he returns again for us, or until we go to him, whichever comes first.
With the God who created the heavens and the earth by his great power, nothing is too difficult, only believe. And if your faith is weak, pray, and ask God to help you in your unbelief. Believe for greater things and you will see them.